Tending your marriage

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Everyone has heard at one time or another that marriage takes work. Just because we have heard it doesn’t mean we always put the effort in.

 

I think our ideas of work can be construed at times. Sometimes the work is simply being able to keep your mouth closed when we want to tell our husbands the right way to do things:) Work could also mean smiling or simply being a joy to be around. I know I often take these small gestures for granted but they can have a huge impact on your marriage.

 

God commanded for husbands to love their wives and for wives to respect their husbands. Respecting the man God put in our life is one of the greatest ways we can tend our marriage. When he has our support, he can soar. This is the way God designed it. He created marriage and therefore knew what we would each need.

 

Once we as women can take a small step back and recognize the role that God has created our men for, then we can start to see them through God’s eyes. We should feel our empowerment in the way we can build up our husbands instead of the false empowerment of trying to compete with them or trying to always be right. This is no contest, but a unity to accomplish God’s purposes.

 

Our culture tells us women to not only strive for equality with our husbands but to surpass him as the leader in every are of life. I know for many this is a strange concept, but what if we weren’t made to be equal? What if we were made to be below him? To be the foundation, to uphold, to lift up, to be the strong tower. As we are below him we are protected, and covered with power from God to turn our families into the bright lights they should be.

 

This is a simple list of how we can tend our marriage and show our man the respect he craves.

  1. Smile at the guy for goodness sakes, maybe even give him a wink!
  2. Say a simple thank you. Gratitude goes a long way.
  3. When he comes home ask him about his day without interrupting.
  4. If he complains about something don’t tell him how he could have done it differently or better.
  5. Praise him in front of the kids.
  6. Have him a glass of sweet tea or whatever he drinks when he walks in the door.
  7. Pray for him and trust God to lead him.
  8. When he is home let him lead how you spend family time.
  9. Show affection.

It’s the simple actions that can help our marriages flourish. Any other ideas?

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4 Responses to Tending your marriage

  • DEBBIE says:

    WHAT A GREAT WAY TO LOOK AT MARRIAGE.SO MANY OF US WOMEN DON’T WANT TO FEEL LIKE WE ARE
    BELOW OUR HUSBAND BUT WHEN YOU LOOK AT IT LIKE WE ARE THE FOUNDATION IT TAKES ON A
    WHOLE DIFFERENT LOOK. THE FOUNDATION IS VERY IMPORTANT PART IN ANYTHING YOU BUILD.HOW
    DID YOU GET SO WISE AT SUCH A YOUNG AGE? GREAT, GREAT BLOG!

  • Donna says:

    Wow! I feel really convicted after reading this. Brittany, the Lord is really using you through this blog. I need to reevaluate the way I treat my husband. Pray that the Lord will help me treat him better. I don’t think I treat him bad. However, I could do a much better job of making him feel special and loved.


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